It is a beautiful spring day in Michigan and I am so happy to be back to enjoying life and creating in my studio. I have been unable to even get to my studio for four months. In October I twisted my knee which led to falling and really hurting things. What proceeded from that point was my knee became septic with infection (MRSA), finding out I also fractured my shoulder and my knee required surgery. After two weeks in the hospital and over a month in a rehab facility I returned home in a wheel chair to regain strength.
The most difficult part of everything was missing my second granddaughter’s birth, unable to prepare for Christmas and being the matriarch of giving joy and celebration of the holidays to my family. I also wasn’t able to help my son after he had back surgery or care for his new daughter in a way that I did for my daughter’s little one.
This period of my life has given me a new prospective of being retired, family, starting a new business, and what is REALLY important to me. It reminded me that God answers prayers in many different ways and we may never understand why. Things happen for a reason. In the process, I realized I don’t need to have the PhD behind my name and family was more important than dedicating so much time to that en-devour. My love and bond with my husband also became so much stronger. He never left my side when I was in the hospital and cared for me in ways that I never believed he would. Just talking about all of this has tears running!
I am sharing this with you so that you take a step back and think about where you are today. Many of you are beginning to enter your fifty’s and are beginning to think about life very differently I am sure. What legacy will you leave for your family? Is it that you have a PhD? Is it that you taught your grandchildren how to crochet or play the piano? These were some of the questions that I now have clarity with.
My life has been blessed and I am back to bring creativity to everyone – one day at a time – with love and affection.
Come along with me for this wonderful ride called LIFE…….
PhD or Not —–That has been the looming question for me over the last six months. I have continued writing and trying to keep my head around the literature review, research design and working with my chair. But, do I really need to have a PhD any more? I am retired and working in my studio and loving every minute that I am there creating. I’m 57 years old and I don’t think that I will ever go back to higher education.
I would love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this topic. It has been interesting as my college friends say – ABSOLUTELY FINISH and my other friends say DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.
What do I do………..
Today is sibling day! Not quite sure where this “DAY” of celebration came from. But, it gives us time to think about our brothers and/or sisters hopefully in a loving way and be happy they are in our lives.
Doing some research I found that Claudia Evart created the day and also the Siblings Day Foundation. Evart lost her siblings very early in life from two separate accidents. Forty-nine governors have acknowledged the holiday. President George W. Bush recognized the day in 2008. But, it takes much more to become an actual holiday.
Now that we have the historical out of the way, what about your siblings? How is your relationship with them? Was it better when you were younger or has it gotten better as both of you have grown older? Have there been events in your life that changed your relationship? If you have elderly parents, has this changed your relationship with your siblings?
If your like me you have had a roller coaster relationship with your sibling. I am 3 1/2 years older than my brothers. He was never in school with me and when he was in high school I was married (young) and we weren’t real close. When I was in high school he was always that pesty brother who was in the way with friends and boyfriends. Ha Ha Ha! My brother was really different then me too. He struggled in school and everything came easy for me. He was the wild child and I was the typical first child who did everything she was suppose to.
Over the years as we both have our own families and lost our mother we have grown closer, not caring about the differences, caring that we are family and that is the most important. We have had our tiffs – actually more between things my husband has done, but, we all grow and it isn’t worth holding any grudges.
I am sure many of you were challenged with divorces in your family and then parents remarrying. How did this affect your relationships with your siblings? I know that each one of us have our stories……what is yours? Share in the comments and give a tribute to your siblings today.
The picture above is me and my brother. We had our first vacation together since we were kids still at home. It was actually a lot of fun and we didn’t kill each other.
HAPPY SIBLING DAY!
Today is the start of 2018’s journey of life, retirement, business development, and most importantly being a gram! Take this journey with me and share as I share with you how my life as an administrator in higher education evolves. Share the joys and struggles of being on the back end of 50, having an aging parent, and wanting to be all my mother was and more as a grandmother.
Part of this journey will also include trying hard to develop a home-based business, complete my PhD, and being a mother, wife and grandmother. And…also important is the passion of allow art and design a major part of this journey. Yes……….we have a lot of work to do this year don’t we?
Well…….let’s get started today…..before the NEW YEAR!
I included the picture of me standing on a Florida gulf beach so we can close our eyes, feel the waves moving back and forth and our toes being covered by sand. Demonstrating that if we do not keep moving we will be covered up and stuck in the sand of life. We don’t have time to waste this gift of life given to us.
So….for our first step of filling in our planners for 2018. Let’s make a list of what is important to us…..everything…..big and little! Include vacations, birthdays….anything and everything you deem as important for your year to be a success.
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HAPPY NEW YEAR!